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Bad Boy Vs Good Guy - Does Interest Have Anything To Do With Being A Bad Boy Compared To A Nice Guy?
Fine, we have all seen that myth - that "nice guys" lose out and the 'bad boys" interest women - but I don't think it is necessarily true. At least I don't believe it has anything to do with being a bad boy versus a nice guy.
I feel there are other personality vectors involved that maybe bad boys and nice guys have that are the defining qualities of attraction.
Bad boys tend to be less shy, but in addition they are more confident in general than nice guys. I believe that it would be these qualities that are attracting a woman not the point that a guy is bad.
I personally almost never use the "bad boy" method when attracting women, I am most always a perfect gentleman. However, I am not an easy catch and women can tell that quickly when talking to me. I am a little unapproachable, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how lovely they are, and most women don't have a clue as to whether I am keen on them or just being nice.
That is what sets me away from a "nice guy". Women see me as a perfect gentleman but haven't a clue if I like them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - enjoy that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who fawn all over them.
Girls like guys who are appealing and unique. Attractive girls don't find guys who tell them how beautiful they are to be exceptional. But a guy who has a pleasant conversation with them without saying a word about their beauty verbally or non-verbally - now that is both interesting and unique to a beautiful girl.
Also do not forget that women have different characters. And what one thinks is interesting and unique changes from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking female may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how pretty she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a culture of perfect gentlemen, might very well find a guy who talks a little awful and naughty to be interesting and unique. A woman who knows nothing but crude and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.
You see regardless of what you are like there is someone for you. But you have to determine who that someone would be and then try to maximize how you would meet women like that. So no matter if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a position where you are interesting and unique to the women you come across and you will be victorious.
One of the hardest things to learn in life is that regardless of what you are like there is always someone who is perfectly well-matched to you. Even if you are boring there are women who are absolutely compatible with that. Not every one wants to meet and hook up with the life of the party.
The problem is people who don't acknowledge themselves for who they are, try and act differently and they are not being real, so they don't appeal to anyone. Now if you just accept yourself for who you are and act the way you basically are, you will find that there are people who will choose you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are boring or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will find a girl who will accept you for who you are.
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