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Get Back Together With Your Ex Just By Becoming Less Attainable And Even More Of A Challenge For Her
You were a challenge for her. You had a very high appeal and she was irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I'm about to make a wild guess here, but could it be that as time went on, you grew to become less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that currently, you're zero challenge for her? Not to mention that she realizes if she wanted to, at any time she could easily get you back again and wrapped around her finger simply by saying the word?
Now I'm going to be a bit crude here, but as you may already know, to become a challenge once more you have to show to your ex that her sexuality does not have any control over you any more. Consider what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And after that think about what it is like when you continue doing it (as many guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You are implying to the woman that you are a low-value guy with no other dating choices.
Your lady is not going to respect you again until you refuse her sexual power over you. Luckily you're doing that now by not personally corresponding with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Be sure you stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. Do not be "pals" with her, simply because that rewards her with the continuing validation of power over you while supplying her a comfortable justification to stay separated. (Your ex reasons that she is letting you down easy that way, assuaging any culpability she may experience.)
On the other hand, you should definitely keep her locked in with your things. More than likely quite a few your belongings are at her residence, and vice versa. She may also owe you money as well. She might request a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want all of it returned.
The right reply to this is definitely "No, not yet. The rationale is simply because her possessing your things (and you holding onto hers) is still locking you two in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to provide her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.
For the up coming three weeks, you need to totally acknowledge -- and embrace -- the fact that you are an independent person now. Take what transpired with your ex-lover and learn from it. You have a great opportunity to transform your life which will eventually allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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